I once had a guy tell me that he preferred me without piercings and unnatural hair colours because he found them ugly. Right after I’d decided, on my own, that I didn’t want that anymore. Later, he told me that if I got new piercings that he wouldn’t like my appearance. I want piercings again, but I feel like I can’t even talk about it because I’m so afraid he’ll leave me… so I don’t get piercings, and I’m still his girlfriend.
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